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News@www.adoption-net.co.uk Story published on October 30, 2002 Giving a child a happy home For many couples who suffer the heartbreak of discovering they cannot have a child of their own, adoption is the perfect solution. Here one couple tell their story - and hope it will encourage others to follow in their footsteps and provide a loving home for a child. Bev and Dave, from Dordon, decided to adopt a child three years ago after exploring every other way of starting a family. The couple were desperate to have children but after trying all kinds of fertility schemes and being unsuccessful they decided to adopt. After completing each stage of the process Bev and Dave adopted Liam, a 21-month-old boy, now aged five. Two years later they decided to adopt another child, Stephen, then aged nine months. "The process is very, very thorough," said Dave.
Liam has had difficulties since he was a few months old, something that Bev and Dave have learned to cope with. "It can be difficult at times but he is a lovely, bright, happy lad, he just finds it hard understanding things.
Dave said: "I wouldn't really say we're worried about telling them that they are adopted.
Bev added: "Our family have been fantastic, they love the boys. My parents also live in Dordon and my mum loves looking after the kids." Pru Schleutker, an adoption social worker for Warwickshire County Council, stressed the importance of other family members when a couple decide to adopt.
But, she said, maintaining contact with natural parents is also important.
At the moment, said Pru, Warwickshire is desperate for people to adopt older children and sibling groups. "Warwickshire is particularly short of adoptive parents who will consider groups of brothers and sisters," she said. If you are interested in adopting a child you should contact Brenda Vincent at Warwickshire County Council's adoption service on 01926 413313, or Staffordshire County Council's adoption service on 0800 169 2061.
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