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This story published May 11, 2001

That's so unfair!
by Kevin Palmer

To many, the image of a typical teenager resembles the character of Kevin created by Harry Enfield - complete with spots and mood swings.

But a new fostering campaign launched by Derbyshire County Council is keen to dispel that myth.

It hopes to encourage 30 people to come forward and care for youngsters going through their difficult teenage years.

The council is particularly keen to recruit couples who have had experience of dealing with their own children through the traumatic teens.

But it would also like to hear from single people or those who have overcome crisis in their own lives who may have the "emotional toughness" needed to foster a teenager.

The authority has 500 children in foster care of which 180 are teenagers. It finds it more difficult to place older children as many carers are want to look after young children.

Henrietta Bond, of the National Foster Care Association, said the problem of placing older children in foster care is a growing a national trend.

She said: "Many people think that fostering is about babies, but children of all ages need temporary care. Every teenager is an individual with their own personality and needs.

"Some are very outgoing and stroppy but others will be shy, withdrawn, and really needing someone to bring them out of their shell.

"It can be an immensely rewarding thing to do to support young people who are going through separation from their own families during what everyone knows is one of the most difficult periods of their lives.

"People should remember that not all teenagers are like the Kevin character created by Harry Enfield.

"I have met lots of teenagers in foster care who are thoughtful, kind, considerate and a pleasure to be with."

Bruce Buckley, council director of social services, added: "Our experience has shown that teenagers can be placed in foster homes with real success.

"Seeing a young person gradually find his or her feet in the world or overcome a problem can bring a special kind of satisfaction."

Among those who have found fostering rewarding are Kath and John Meghet, of Ripley, who have cared for more than 30 teenagers over 17 years.

Kath, 48, a council social worker, said: "We thought about giving a home to babies and young children but when we went for training they said we had a lot to offer teenagers. We have never really looked back.

"It is a challenge because the young people come from different backgrounds. It is about understanding and compromise to meet the young person's needs."

Carers receive a weekly allowance of up to £123.83 a week. For youngsters with additional needs an extra £98.68 may be payable.

For more information ring Derbyshire's Fostering Information Line on 01629 772211.

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