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This story published August 8 2000

Male carers 'have vital role'
by www.adoption-net.co.uk staff

A social work researcher says fostering agencies are neglecting the important part that foster fathers can play in a child's life because they are seen more as a potential risk to the child than as an a positive role model.

Robbie Gilligan argues that male foster carers can play a vital part in helping an abused child overcome the trauma they may have suffered at the hands of men from their past.

But because of the fear that agencies have that the man may abuse the child, they marginalise the foster father's role in the care of the child.

Writing in the Adoption and Fostering journal, he calls for agencies to involve foster fathers more fully in training and offer them more support.

Children often enter care having been abused by men or may have witnessed men abusing their mothers. They are also likely to have been removed from their home by male police officers or have had to make court appearances before often male judges.

As such, a child view of men may be tainted by their experiences, says Mr Gilligan, academic co-director of the Children's Research Centre at the University of Dublin.

"Relationships with males foster carers have the potential to help foster children to lay the ghost of past trauma caused by men.

"Male foster carers can help to challenge any negative images of men the foster children may harbour. A positive or even a non-destructive relationship with a male foster carer may help heal children who have been emotionally scarred by previous male behaviour."

But despite the benefits that male carers can bring, their role is usually sidelined by social workers who, for instance, may choose to speak primarily to the foster mother about a child.

Mr Gilligan's small exploratory study found that male carers had various roles:

  • Supporter - providing their female partner time off from the stress of caring for the children.
  • Protector - acting as a mediator between their partner and the social worker but lending his weight to his partner's cause.
  • Source of discipline - the 'wait till your dad gets home' scenario.
  • Entertainment managers - planning and doing fun activities (often physical) outside the home

    But frequently the male carers voiced the fear of allegations being made against them which affected the way they cared for the children.

    "It can rob the male carers' role and relationships of spontaneity," says Mr Gilligan, who has been a foster carer himself.

    He warned that agencies that ignored the plight and concerns of male foster carers, risked losing carers or putting off people from fostering.

    "There is a danger of the men feeling that they are being related to as a risk to be regulated. Men may be trapped in the typecast role of potential abuser," says Mr Gilligan.

    His recommendations include involving men more fully in their role and providing more training at times which allow more working men to attend.

    Social workers also need to be trained, he argues, to enable them to understand the potentially beneficial role a man can play in helping to heal a child's emotional scars left by past trauma or abuse.

    He also urges agencies to set up peer support groups for male carers and develop clear policies and procedures on the handling of abuse allegations against carers.

    Full report of the study in Adoption and Fostering published by the British Agencies for Adoption and Fostering.

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